Bliss & Marriage

Today is 6 months exactly that I have been married to my best friend, and caring husband. The majority of our marriage (5 months to be exact) were spent apart, but now we are reunited and this last month has exceeded my expectation's. For those of you that are newlywed's, high school sweethearts, engaged, dating, or even single contemplating what your future may hold, some of these tips and tricks for your relationship or future relationship may just be what you're looking for.

Now please keep in mind these are ideas and concepts that work for my marriage, but every couple has their own unique dynamic.

1. Pray- I cannot stress this point enough whether you are religious or not, when things get tough or when push comes to shove everyone look's to prayer or to someone who will pray on their behalf. I cannot even handle my own life alone, and I would be naive to assume I could handle marriage all on my own. With a bountiful prayer life, my demeanor is so much sweeter, I know how to navigate tough times, and it help's me to be a better wife as we make it through this crazy world together.

2. Just be up front-let me explain, if there is one thing that my hubby has taught me it's speaking up and saying exactly what's on your mind. I don't know if anyone else struggles with expressing their exact emotions, but I am guilty of "beating around the bush." Instead of just going to my husband and straight up saying, "hey i'm feeling this way because...." I would just not say anything. DON'T I repeat, DO NOT be this woman. He isn't a mind reader just speak up and talk it out!

3. Laugh a lot- One thing that is essential for not going crazy spending countless hours with the same person day in and day out, is laughter. Thankfully for me my husband has such a warped sense of humor yet he never fails to make me die laughing!

4. Get comfortable- Once you're married and living together that doesn't mean stop trying or putting your best foot forward, but it does mean "your person" will see every side of you that maybe they didn't notice before. Just be okay with being natural and your partner will appreciate the genuine you.

5. When they are tired, let them rest- When your partner is exhausted mentally, physically, or just needs a nap LET THEM SLEEP! I know in our house if you wake the sleeping bear you are in for a treat! Really though the key is to let them rest when they need it, and spend time with them once they are rested.

6. Give each other space- So my husband and I spend a lot of time together, and honestly I never get tired of it but some couples (us included) need some time to wind down and unplug. My husband is a gamer, and in the house we have a game room, a side with all of his computers and the other side of the room is where I hangout. I have my computers for when I work, or watch Netflix while he games. Were both able to do things we enjoy on our own while still being in the same room, and talking a lot throughout the night.

7. Say I love you- Always any chance you get, even if it seems annoying say I love you. I am a very affectionate person and I know I can drive my husband insane, but saying I love you when you get the chance is important and reaffirming.

Of course there are so many other things that make a successful marriage and it's not as simple as follow these steps to ensure a blissful partnership, but these thing's do seem to help along the way to appreciate all that your significant other does and is with you.

The most important piece is the right person, and thankfully I was blessed to cross path's at the perfect moment in time with "my person." Six months may not seem like much in the grand scheme of things but to me it is paramount. If I hadn't of married the right person moving overseas would have been an absolute nightmare, but thankfully (and I'm sure I don't tell him enough) my husband is an absolute rockstar! Seriously, he goes out of his way to make me feel comforted when thing's are new, reassures me when things are tough, but most of all he makes living anywhere in the world feel like home. Happy anniversary to my handsome stud and thank you for all you do!